Your vows, considered
A private practice for the words that matter most. Written to complement each other in harmony.
Your story. Your words. Beautifully told.
The most meaningful vows don't come from finding the perfect words. They come from discovering what you truly want to say.
Through a series of private, one-on-one conversations, we'll uncover the stories, memories, and promises that make your relationship entirely your own.
The Experience
An intimate, collaborative experience. Thoughtfully tailored to you.
Available individually or for couples.
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It begins with a conversation.
We'll explore your love story beyond the obvious milestones; the little moments, the unexpected details, and the things you've always felt but perhaps never said aloud.
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Together, we'll find the words.
Drawing from our conversations, we'll shape your memories and feelings into vows that are thoughtful, personal, and unmistakably yours. Whether you're starting with a blank page or a finished draft, your voice remains at the center of everything.
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Beautiful words deserve to be heard. Through private rehearsal and performance coaching, we'll refine your delivery so you can stand before the person you love feeling prepared, confident, and fully present.
Meet Michael
Comedian. Writer. Your Vow Coach.
Michael Bevan has always had a gift for getting people to open up.
Raised by two therapists, he grew up understanding the power of a good question, a thoughtful conversation, and the extraordinary things people reveal when they feel truly heard.
As a New York City comedian and writer, Michael has been featured in The New Yorker and the New York Comedy Festival. His work is rooted in the belief that the most memorable stories are equal parts humor, honesty, and heart.
His love of storytelling eventually found its way into the world of weddings. Having spent years behind the scenes of New York's most beautiful celebrations, Michael developed an intimate understanding of the care, choreography, and emotion that go into an unforgettable wedding day. He went on to write and officiate the ceremony of a wedding featured in Vogue, an experience that deepened his appreciation for the privilege of telling rsomeone else's love story.
The Vow Coach was born from a simple belief: the most meaningful words aren't necessarily the most elaborate. They're the ones that could only come from you.
Today, Michael brings together his instincts as a comedian, his experience as an officiant, and his natural curiosity about people to help couples discover what they truly want to say—and find the confidence to say it beautifully.
Sit down with Michael
Based in New York City.
Sessions available virtually and in person.